[Benchmark] Improvements to attention benchmark script (#37115)

Signed-off-by: wzhao18 <wzhao18.sz@gmail.com>

benchmarks/attention_benchmarks/configs/mla_sparse_decode.yaml

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+# MLA decode-only benchmark configuration
+
+model:
+  name: "deepseek-v3"
+  num_layers: 60
+  num_q_heads: 128  # Base value, can be swept for TP simulation
+  num_kv_heads: 1  # MLA uses single latent KV
+  head_dim: 576
+  kv_lora_rank: 512
+  qk_nope_head_dim: 128
+  qk_rope_head_dim: 64
+  v_head_dim: 128
+  block_size: 128  # CUTLASS MLA and FlashAttn MLA use 128
+
+# Model parameter sweep: simulate tensor parallelism by varying num_q_heads
+# TP=1: 128 heads, TP=2: 64 heads, TP=4: 32 heads, TP=8: 16 heads
+model_parameter_sweep:
+  param_name: "num_q_heads"
+  values: [128, 64, 32, 16]
+  label_format: "{backend}_{value}h"
+
+batch_specs:
+  # Small batches, varying sequence lengths
+  - "16q1s512"     # 16 requests, 512 KV cache
+  - "16q1s1k"      # 16 requests, 1k KV cache
+  - "16q1s2k"      # 16 requests, 2k KV cache
+  - "16q1s4k"      # 16 requests, 4k KV cache
+
+  # Medium batches
+  - "32q1s1k"      # 32 requests, 1k KV cache
+  - "32q1s2k"      # 32 requests, 2k KV cache
+  - "32q1s4k"      # 32 requests, 4k KV cache
+  - "32q1s8k"      # 32 requests, 8k KV cache
+
+  # Large batches
+  - "64q1s1k"      # 64 requests, 1k KV cache
+  - "64q1s2k"      # 64 requests, 2k KV cache
+  - "64q1s4k"      # 64 requests, 4k KV cache
+  - "64q1s8k"      # 64 requests, 8k KV cache
+
+  # Very large batches
+  - "128q1s1k"     # 128 requests, 1k KV cache
+  - "128q1s2k"     # 128 requests, 2k KV cache
+  - "128q1s4k"     # 128 requests, 4k KV cache
+  - "128q1s8k"     # 128 requests, 8k KV cache
+
+  # Long context
+  - "32q1s16k"     # 32 requests, 16k KV cache
+  - "32q1s32k"     # 32 requests, 32k KV cache
+
+backends:
+  - FLASHMLA_SPARSE
+  - FLASHINFER_MLA_SPARSE
+
+device: "cuda:0"
+repeats: 100
+warmup_iters: 10
+profile_memory: true